045: Fatherhood odyssey: 5 success rules for 5-year olds

February 10, 2021 00:11:49
045: Fatherhood odyssey: 5 success rules for 5-year olds
Inner Work with Steli Efti
045: Fatherhood odyssey: 5 success rules for 5-year olds
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Show Notes

A while back I was driving my sons back home with the car, and they got excited about a dope looking sports car they saw. And it led to something I almost never do: I shared advice on how to be successful in life with them.

In this episode, I'll share it with you too, but more importantly—how they reacted to me sharing these lessons. Just a beautiful little moment that's dear to me as a father.

Shownotes: https://steliefti.com/fatherhood-odyssey-5-success-rules-for-5-year-olds/

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