090: The Dangers of Overcorrecting Your Mistakes

August 02, 2021 00:48:18
090: The Dangers of Overcorrecting Your Mistakes
Inner Work with Steli Efti
090: The Dangers of Overcorrecting Your Mistakes
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Sometimes we don't learn from our mistakes at all, and we keep repeating them again and again. And sometimes we overcorrect our mistakes so much, that we just replaced one mistake with another mistake. 

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