095: What I Learned From My Grandfather

August 15, 2021 00:28:02
095: What I Learned From My Grandfather
Inner Work with Steli Efti
095: What I Learned From My Grandfather
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It was 2007, I had just moved to the US, when I received a call from my brother: My grandfather had died. I was his namesake, and his favorite grandchild. People always told me how much I came after him. He was a larger than life character, always believed that I was special, that I was destined for greatness. I had learned so much from him, and now he was gone. I felt terrible. And then somehow, I felt the desire to write him a last, final letter. In this episode, I re-read this letter for the first time in many years.

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