096: Kissing My Mother’s Feet

August 20, 2021 00:42:18
096: Kissing My Mother’s Feet
Inner Work with Steli Efti
096: Kissing My Mother’s Feet
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Show Notes

I was recently on vacation with my family and shared a very special moment with my mother: For the first time in decades, I felt like the child of my mother—and her being my parent. I've stepped into the role of being her protector, coach, caretaker, and teacher for such a long time that I forgot what being a child even felt like. 

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